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Category: Life at First

March Madness

March Madness

March Madness – the time of year when Americans fall in love with college basketball. Last year the NCAA reported that the NCAA tournament averaged 11.3 million total viewers – an increase of 8% over last year’s viewership and the highest average viewership in 22 years! 1 Many fans love the Cinderella teams that bust brackets and win it all. Other fans enjoy the backstory of a team’s rise to success or glory. As the backstories unfold this year, what will the commentators discuss? Will it be the improprieties of Syracuse, the accusations against Louisville and their self-imposed ban on post-season play, or the North Carolina academic investigation that has yet to produce an NCAA ruling?
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Kids vs. Marriage

Kids vs. Marriage

Should children be parents’ number one priority?

 

It almost sounds heretical to suggest otherwise. Of course, the nurture and guidance of our children is a very important responsibility of any parent. Deuteronomy 6 states that our number one responsibility is to love God with all our heart, soul and strength. Then we are to teach that “diligently” to our children. But this command should not be interpreted to mean that our children are our second highest priority after loving God. What it says is that teaching them to love God should be second only to our own love for the Lord. One of the best ways to teach them this is by having all other relationships in proper priority. When our world revolves around our children we are teaching them that they are our number one priority.
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Welcoming the Stranger

Welcoming the Stranger

“He executes justice for the orphan and the widow, and shows His love for the alien by giving him food and clothing.  So show your love for the alien, for you were aliens in the land of Egypt.” Deuteronomy 10:18-19

 

Recently immigration has become a very popular topic in the news and everywhere else. As I listen to all that is being said of immigration in the mainstream media and talk radio along with various people’s viewpoints, I realize, two things. First, that most Christians in America don’t know what God’s heart is concerning immigrants and the Church’s role in ministry to immigrants. Second, that Christians are allowing their knowledge about immigration to be developed by the media, not Scripture. By their own admission, most Christians do not think about immigration from a biblical perspective. Just 12% of evangelical Christians say that their views on immigration are primarily influenced by the Bible (LifeWay Research, 2015). Why? Perhaps because just 21% of evangelical Christians say they have ever been challenged with a biblical message about reaching out to immigrants by their local church (LifeWay Research, 2015). I want us to dig into the Scriptures and discover God’s heart on immigrants so that we can continue to be effective in demonstrating to the world who God is as well as the Church’s role regarding immigration.

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Believing What We Sing

Believing What We Sing

When I was pastor of a church in Oklahoma I had another minister in town say to me, “what we believe is what we sing.”

I have thought about that statement many times. There is so much of our theology wrapped up in the hymns and songs that we sing. We believe in the power of the blood of Jesus to cleanse our sin. That is why we love to sing the hymn, “There’s Power in the Blood.” We believe that God’s grace is amazing, therefore we sing, “Amazing Grace.” I believe that there needs to be a fresh call to examine what we sing. Whenever we come to a worship service we are involved in singing. Is the theology in the song sound? Does the text stand the scrutiny of scripture? Our hymns and songs of praise declare our faith. When we sing we are declaring to God our praise for Him. When we sing we are declaring to a lost world, this is what I believe!
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Movies Are Too Expensive Anyways

Movies Are Too Expensive Anyways

Reasons for Us to Filter What We Watch

With the recent showing of the Academy Awards 88th Oscar telecast, our culture is buzzing with conversations about movies. I am always impressed when I’m with someone who is well informed about cinematic history. I love when they start rattling off facts and information about movies, actors, producers, etc., but usually when this happens I have to check out of the conversation and give myself a pep talk. Behind glazed-over eyes and the occasional nod of agreement I’m actually telling myself something like this, “Scott, it’s ok if you don’t know all this stuff about movies. Everyone has to be good at something. Just think about all the things you do know! But you may actually want to consider watching more movies so you can be relevant and contribute to these topics.” While I am as far away from a movie buff as one can be, I do enjoy watching movies. It is an art to be appreciated and a great way of being entertained, but it is becoming increasingly difficult to find wholesome movies that speak a good message while including plenty of humor or action or drama. There is too much debate about this in Christian circles, but the point I want to bring before you today is that Christians, in large part, compromise too much for the sake of entertainment or cultural relevancy when we watch movies that are full of filth.
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Too much love for the Game?

Too much love for the Game?

I have been increasingly frustrated with the way that sports and other extra-curricular activities have slowly crept into what used to be the sacred space of Wednesday night and Sunday morning. Traditionally, these days were off limits for practices and games because that is when church programs occurred. Today, it has become no holds barred – practices and games take place regularly on these once untouchable days. Before we go any further, let me confess that I love sports! My schedule seems to revolve around home football games in the fall. As a father, I love to watch my kids play sports. There is something special about watching your son round the bases after a great hit or sinking that shot that he has been practicing for weeks!

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Undivided in Devotion

Undivided in Devotion

Making the Most of Seasons of Singleness

  “ I want you to be free from anxieties. The unmarried man is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to please the Lord. But the married man is anxious about worldly things, how to please his wife, and his interests are divided. And the unmarried or betrothed woman is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to be holy in body and spirit. But the married woman is anxious about worldly things, how to please her husband. I say this for your own benefit, not to lay any restraint upon you, but to promote good order and to secure your undivided devotion to the Lord.” (1 Cor. 7:32-35)
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Rooted in Love

Rooted in Love

 

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People often say, “It’s easy for me to love this person, but it’s hard for me to love that person.”

But Jesus didn’t use the term love in that way. His notion was that we are to become loving persons. He meant this as a condition of being…kind of like being healthy. I am so rooted in God’s love for me and increasingly free of sin; therefore, I am ready to will the good for any person who comes into my life because I am a loving person regardless of who that person is or how they feel about me.  God give us the ability to do this by establishing us in His love.  Ephesians 3:17-18, “And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ…”.

Squabbling Over Money In Marriage

Squabbling Over Money In Marriage

Married and fighting about money? You are in good company. According to studies, couples fight more about finances than any other issue.

 

This past weekend we hosted Drs. Les & Leslie Parrott at First Baptist for Fight Night, an event to help couples work on conflict in their marriages. In their book “The Good Fight,” the Parrotts discuss fighting through money by tracing the conflict over finances to 4 Primary Fears. If we can shift the focus of our disagreement from the amount of money we spend on whatever we buy toward the fears that are fueling the fight then we are more likely to arrive at a resolution.
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