Here’s a profound truth about social media: it allows people to make their lives look like they are blissfully perfect. Whether it is intentional or not, most of us do this when we only post pictures or status updates that highlight exciting events or happy times with friends. Occasionally, people share prayer requests, which reveal that life isn’t perfect for them, but not everyone is willing to share their serious struggles on social media. All this leaves us scrolling through profile after profile thinking everyone else has a perfect life, and over time we start to feel discontent with our lives and lose a sense of reality. It also makes us want to hide behind the social media curtain and never talk to people about hard times in life, which leads to something I like to call the “social media blues”. In First Student Ministries, we are going through a series about friendships, and we discussed how good friends don’t let others live disconnected lives and get stuck in a spiritual or emotional rut. Although social media is supposed to keep us engaged and “social”, it often times has an adverse effect, and that is why each one of us needs good, real friends to lift us up when we are alone or discouraged. Genuine friendships are the cure for the social media blues.
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