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Gospel-Centered Dating Part 2

Gospel-Centered Dating Part 2

In our first post regarding Gospel-Centered Dating, we covered the intent and purpose of dating from a biblical perspective—a Christian philosophy for dating, if you will. This time I want us to begin exploring how we see this philosophy realized in our lives in more practical, everyday kinds of ways, and make our way toward wrapping up our discussion next time. Continue reading →

Gospel Centered Dating Pt. 1

Gospel Centered Dating Pt. 1

Spring is the season of love, or so they say. Working with college students, it’s no surprise that a number of the conversations I have revolve around dating, love, marriage, and the like. And it never fails that this time of year those conversations hit an uptick in frequency. Since spring has sprung, I felt like it would be a good time for all of us, but especially those who are single in our congregation, to establish and understand what it means to date well so we may be able to better to encourage one another.

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Undivided in Devotion

Undivided in Devotion

Making the Most of Seasons of Singleness

  “ I want you to be free from anxieties. The unmarried man is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to please the Lord. But the married man is anxious about worldly things, how to please his wife, and his interests are divided. And the unmarried or betrothed woman is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to be holy in body and spirit. But the married woman is anxious about worldly things, how to please her husband. I say this for your own benefit, not to lay any restraint upon you, but to promote good order and to secure your undivided devotion to the Lord.” (1 Cor. 7:32-35)
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Squabbling Over Money In Marriage

Squabbling Over Money In Marriage

Married and fighting about money? You are in good company. According to studies, couples fight more about finances than any other issue.

 

This past weekend we hosted Drs. Les & Leslie Parrott at First Baptist for Fight Night, an event to help couples work on conflict in their marriages. In their book “The Good Fight,” the Parrotts discuss fighting through money by tracing the conflict over finances to 4 Primary Fears. If we can shift the focus of our disagreement from the amount of money we spend on whatever we buy toward the fears that are fueling the fight then we are more likely to arrive at a resolution.
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